Prenups: The Marriage Contract You Need to Talk About Before Saying “I Do”
What if talking about a prenup isn't about planning for divorce, but about having honest conversations before you get married? In this episode of Love Ends, Law Begins, hosts Fara Rodriguez and Stephanie Lehman take a closer look at one of the most misunderstood legal documents in marriage: the prenuptial agreement. They discuss why prenups are becoming more common, what couples should consider when creating one, and some of the unusual clauses people have tried to include. From infidelity and social media clauses to financial arrangements and “walk away” agreements, the conversation explores how prenups can be tailored to a couple's individual circumstances. Fara and Stephanie also discuss the importance of thinking beyond the present and considering how marriage, children, careers, finances, and even moving to another state could affect a prenup in the future. They explain why couples need to understand what they're agreeing to, especially when one spouse may eventually become a stay at home parent or sacrifice their own earning potential. Whether you're engaged, considering a prenup, or simply curious about how these agreements work, this conversation offers a practical look at the financial and legal conversations couples should have before walking down the aisle. In this episode, you'll hear about: • Why couples choose to create prenuptial agreements • What a “walk away” agreement means • How marriage can change the way couples approach finances • What happens when one spouse becomes a stay at home parent • Lifestyle, infidelity, and social media clauses • Why child custody and child support can't be predetermined in a prenup • The importance of financial transparency before marriage • How future careers, children, and relocation can impact a prenup • Why state laws matter when couples move after signing an agreement • How a prenup can serve as a roadmap for dividing assets if a marriage ends
September 24, 2026
How to Choose the Right Divorce Lawyer
Hosts Fara Rodriguez and Stephanie Lehman, matrimonial attorneys, dig into one of the most consequential decisions in a divorce: choosing the right lawyer. They talk through the signs that a marriage may be over, the financial timing questions worth considering before filing, and where to find a trustworthy referral, whether through friends, other attorneys, or professionals like accountants and real estate brokers. Fara and Stephanie share what to ask in a consultation, why lawyers who oversell or love bomb prospective clients are a red flag, and why a bulldog reputation does not always serve a client well in court. They also discuss the emotional weight of matrimonial work, the role of the consultation fee, and how firm size—big, small, or solo—can shape the resources available to a client.
August 26, 2026
From Courtroom Rivals to Law Partners: Stephanie and Fara on Marriage, Money, and Red Flags
Hosts and Offit Kurman partners Stephanie Lehman and Fara Rodriguez open the series by tracing their path from opposing counsel in matrimonial cases to law partners and friends, including a chance reconnection while both were pregnant that eventually led Fara back into practice and into partnership with Stephanie. The two turn the lens on their own lives, discussing what it is like to date and marry as divorce attorneys, why they each valued transparency and financial honesty over chemistry, and the practical, prenup-style conversations couples avoid at their own risk. They share candid stories from years of practice, including memorable moments from early cases, and outline the red flags they look for on a partner's social media before marriage. The episode closes with a preview of the next installment on how to choose a divorce lawyer.
July 8, 2026
Introducing Love Ends. Law Begins.
Love Ends. Law Begins. brings together Offit Kurman partners Stephanie Lehman and Fara Rodriguez—once formidable courtroom adversaries who faced off in complex matrimonial matters and are now colleagues and friends. Drawing on decades of experience in family law, they offer a rare dual perspective on the personal and practical realities of divorce and life transitions. More than a legal podcast, Love Ends. Law Begins. explores the broader issues that shape modern relationships and the paths people take after major life changes. Through candid conversations with professionals from a range of fields—including finance, medicine, faith, and personal wellness—the hosts examine the emotional, financial, and social dimensions of divorce and reinvention. Thoughtful, practical, and engaging, the podcast offers insight and perspective for anyone navigating relationships, change, and what comes next.
June 12, 2026
Love Ends. Law Begins.
Love Ends. Law Begins. brings together Offit Kurman partners Stephanie Lehman and Fara Rodriguez—once formidable courtroom adversaries who faced off in complex matrimonial matters and are now colleagues and friends. Drawing on decades of experience in family law, they offer a rare dual perspective on the personal and practical realities of divorce and life transitions.
More than a legal podcast, Love Ends. Law Begins. explores the broader issues that shape modern relationships and the paths people take after major life changes. Through candid conversations with professionals from a range of fields—including finance, medicine, faith, and personal wellness—the hosts examine the emotional, financial, and social dimensions of divorce and reinvention.
Thoughtful, practical, and engaging, the podcast offers insight and perspective for anyone navigating relationships, change, and what comes next.
