Marquee Background
Marquee Background

Offit Kurman Blogs

Family Law

How Much Will My Divorce Cost?

October 5, 2023

By Sandra A. Brooks

How Much Will My Divorce Cost?

One of the first questions a client asks is, “how much will this cost me?”  While there is no way to really know how much the process will cost, there are some significant factors that can impact your fees.

Opposing Party/Opposing Counsel. Unfortunately, there are some attorneys who are unable or unwilling to provide their clients with reasonable options and steer the case in a direction that will result in a fair and equitable resolution.

If the opposing party and/or their counsel is not reasonable or minded in resolutions and problem-solving, the cost will be higher than if reasonable expectations can be set early on. It is helpful if the roadmap to get to a win/win resolution can be the focus of the case. There are several processes that can be utilized to reach an amicable resolution without the need for litigation, which can be emotionally and financially expensive.

As a result of anger or vindictiveness, some parties are unwilling to focus on the best interest of the family, especially when children are involved. And unfortunately, there are attorneys who encourage detrimental behavior. The combination of the two can be very expensive. We recommend that clients review their invoices each month. If there are questions regarding any charges, they should be brought to the attorney’s attention before the next billing period. If the attorney does not provide a satisfactory response for the charge, the client should interpret that as a red flag.

Certainly, choosing the right attorney to represent you impacts your fees. It is worth spending money on the front end to consult with several attorneys until you find the right fit. Your instinct should never be ignored if you feel that the attorney with whom you are consulting is not responsive to your concerns and needs. Litigation is expensive for clients and profitable for attorneys, so you might question an attorney who pushes litigation from the onset without discussing other options that you might try to utilize to resolve your issues before filing for divorce.

Complexity of the issues. If your case involves every issue before the court (e.g., custody, access, child support, division of marital assets, alimony, attorney’s fees), your matter will be more expensive. There are times when one cannot resolve all issues without the court’s intervention. However, the more issues you resolve on your own, the less expensive the process will be. Along with complex issues may come the cost of experts (forensic business valuations, forensic tracing of assets, forensic analysis of income, child custody evaluator, vocational rehabilitation, appraisers, and the list goes on). You can alleviate some expenses by being organized and gathering as much information/documentation as you can for your attorney/experts. Some clients simply do not know or have access to their/their spouse’s asset information, and the process of uncovering any undisclosed, hidden, or unknown assets can be time-consuming and costly.

Before you engage an attorney, be sure to have resources available from which to pay your legal fees. This may include credit cards, a home equity line of credit, borrowing from friends/family, or liquidating assets. Your attorney should assist you with a plan as to what option may work best for you.

Categories: Family Law

Related People

Related Services

  • Posts
  • About
  • Subscribe

Firm Highlights

  • Podcasts
    Healthcare Equity, Caregiver Burden & the Long-Term Care Crisis with Henry Mason Jr.
      What happens when healthcare inequity, caregiver burden, and a nationwide shortage of long-term care beds collide? For many families in the sandwich generation, the result is a caregiving crisis that feels impossible to navigate. In this episode of The Sandwich Generation Survival Guide, host Candace Dellacona ( https://www.offitkurman.com/candace-dellacona ) sits down with Henry Mason Jr., founder and CEO of Precious Hospice, educator, healthcare advocate, and the voice behind "Healthcare Henry." Together, they explore the growing shortage of long-term care beds, the realities of Medicaid and Medicare, healthcare disparities in minority and rural communities, and the financial pressures facing family caregivers across America. Henry shares powerful insights from the front lines of hospice care, explains why healthcare access remains unequal for many families, and offers practical guidance for becoming a stronger advocate for aging loved ones. Whether you're caring for parents, raising children, navigating hospice decisions, or planning for the future, this conversation will help you better understand the challenges ahead and the resources available to support your family. Follow Henry on social media: LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/henry-mason-jr-a2b97b69/  Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/healthcarehenry/?hl=en  Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/henry.mason.5623 YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@HealthcareHenry  For more information on Precious Hospice, visit https://precioushospice.com/ 
  • Events
    MACFO's Inside Successful CEO & CFO Partnerships
    Please join us on September 18 for an event that’s sure to be a home run! ***We will lead off by interviewing our Spotlight Speaker Series guest, Baltimore Orioles CFO, Darline Llamas Llopis.*** After, we will ask ourselves, what separates great companies from good ones? We believe that more often than not, it is the strength of the partnership between the CEO and CFO that matters, so we are bringing you three CEO/CFO leadership teams to learn from. The Associated: Jewish Federation of Baltimore – Andrew Cushnir and Sam Klein Canusa Paper & Packaging – Mike Walter and Vince Salamone Secom, LLC – Toni Toomey and Mourad Awad Join us for an exclusive executive briefing – three tandem presentations followed by a panel discussion - featuring CEOs and CFOs from different but leading organizations as they share candid insights into building trust, navigating difficult decisions, driving strategic growth, and leading through today's business challenges. You'll hear firsthand how these executive teams navigate conflict, align on priorities, and build high-performing organizations. Whether you're a CFO, controller, finance executive, or an aspiring business leader, you'll leave with practical ideas and fresh perspectives you can apply immediately. Meet Our Speakers: Darline Llamas Llopis • Orioles  Chief Financial Officer Darline Llamas Llopis is in her second season with the Orioles as Chief Financial Officer (CFO). Prior to joining the Orioles, Llamas Llopis spent four seasons with the Miami Dolphins, Hard Rock Stadium, and the F1 Miami Grand Prix as Vice President of Finance and Retail. In this capacity, she managed the finance, accounting, payroll, account payables, procurement and merchandise operations for the team and race. She also previously served for four years as the Director of Finance and Controller at the Los Angeles Rams. Llamas Llopis started her career in public accounting with Ernst & Young and PricewaterhouseCoopers as a member of the Commercial Real Estate practice.  Llamas Llopis completed her MBA at UCLA Anderson School of Management and received her Master of Accountancy from the University of Southern California (USC) where she also graduated cum laude with an undergraduate degree in business. She is a member of the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants (CPA) and is an active CPA. She resides in Baltimore with her husband, Devin, and their son, Santiago. Andrew Cushnir • The Associated: Jewish Federation of Baltimore   President & Chief Executive Officer Andrew Cushnir is the President and Chief Executive Officer of The Associated, having started in the role in May 2024. He is the eighth person to serve in this role since The Associated’s founding over 100 years ago. Andrew brings a wealth of experience and a profound dedication to strengthening and enriching the Jewish community. His journey within the Jewish Federation system began as a passionate lay leader and volunteer before he transitioned into serving as a professional. He worked for the Jewish Federation of Los Angeles for twenty years, including in the roles of Chief Planning and Program Officer and Chief Development Officer. During this time, Andrew played a crucial role in reshaping the allocation process and fostering a culture of collaboration and partnership and he also led all annual, project, and emergency fundraising, as well as planned giving efforts. As a member of the Federation’s executive team, he also addressed complex community and organizational issues. Andrew and his wife Sharon Spira-Cushnir, a seasoned nonprofit human services executive, are the proud parents of two children in their early 20s. Sam Klein • The Associated: Jewish Federation of Baltimore  Chief Financial Officer Sam Klein is a seasoned nonprofit finance executive with nearly two decades of experience leading financial strategy, operations, budgeting, and organizational transformation for mission-driven institutions. As Chief Financial Officer of The Associated: Jewish Federation of Baltimore, he oversees the organization's financial operations, investment stewardship, budgeting processes, risk management, and long-term financial planning, helping advance the Federation's mission of strengthening and supporting Jewish life in Baltimore, Israel, and around the world. Throughout his career, Sam has been recognized for his ability to align financial stewardship with organizational mission, drive process improvements, implement technology solutions, and build high-performing teams. His expertise includes nonprofit finance, strategic planning, budgeting and forecasting, investment oversight, financial reporting, compliance, operational excellence, and organizational growth. Sam earned a Master of Business Administration in Finance from the Johns Hopkins Carey Business School and a Bachelor of Science in Finance and Marketing from Syracuse University. Mike Walter • Canusa's Paper & Packaging Chief Executive Officer As Chief Executive Officer of Canusa Paper & Packaging (CPP), Mike Walter leads one of the world's leading independent international brokerages of containerboard and packaging papers. Mike recently celebrated his 20th anniversary with Canusa and has overseen a doubling of the business in the past five years. Mike’s first role at Canusa was an intern before moving into a risk management role. Progressive promotions over the years led Mike to serve as Canusa's Chief Operating Officer and General Counsel, as well as General Counsel for its affiliate, Canusa Hershman before becoming the CPP CEO on January 1st, 2025. Mike graduated with a B.S. in Commerce & Engineering from Drexel University before earning his J.D. at the University of Baltimore’s School of Law. Vince Salamone • Canusa's Paper & Packaging Chief Financial Officer Vince Salamone serves as Chief Financial Officer of Canusa Paper & Packaging, overseeing the company's global financial strategy and overall operations, risk management, and other shared services. Since joining Canusa in 2018, Vince has advanced from Corporate Controller to CFO. Prior to Canusa, Vince held senior accounting and financial reporting roles at modular space leader Algeco Scotsman and supply chain real estate operator Realterm, bringing extensive expertise in finance and corporate accounting. He began his career with Deloitte, providing assurance services to clients in aerospace and defense, software, and manufacturing throughout the Mid-Atlantic. Vince attended the University of Maryland and Towson University, earning his B.S. in Accounting in 2012 and his CPA license in 2014. Toni Toomey • Secom, LLC Chief Executive Officer As Chief Executive Officer of Secom, LLC, Toni Toomey leads the company's external vision, culture, and strategic growth. A Howard County native, Toni brings an entrepreneurial spirit and a people-first philosophy to one of Maryland's leading commercial security firms — championing internal promotion and a culture of integrity. Toni serves on the Board of Directors for Maryland Tech Council, the Howard County Chamber, as well as the Steering Committee for the Maryland Rural Tech Network. Mourad Awad • Secom, LLC Chief Financial Officer As Chief Financial Officer of Secom, LLC, Mourad Awad architects the company’s financial strategy, performance, and value creation. A leader, by example, Mourad believes in empowering people and fostering communication. With 20+ years of leadership across private equity, federal contracting, construction, and infrastructure services, Mourad brings a strategic approach to partnering with Toni – CEO to turn vision into precision execution, delivering exceptional value to Secom customers and sustainable growth for SECOM.  Thank You to Our Sponsors