Family Law

Family Law

New York’s Laws Fail to Recognize Gender Neutrality

"How are you supposed to be believed about the harm that you experience when people don't even believe that you exist?[1] The legal system has long been criticized for its lack of inclusivity and support for marginalized communities. One such community is the gender non-binary or genderqueer community. People who identify as they/them often encounter challenges in accessing justice, as the legal system is structured around a gender binary. New York's laws assume that individuals identify as either male or female, and they often fail to recognize, let alone support, those who do not conform to these traditional gender roles. In New York State, there is currently no legal recognition of non-binary gender markers like "they/them" on government­ issued identification documents. As a result, people who identify as they/them are often stripped of their rights and may face discrimination and exclusion in various aspects of their lives, including access to healthcare, education, employment, and housing. In addition, legal documents, such as identification cards, passports, and birth certificates, also present challenges for those who identify as they/ them, as these documents require gender marker designations. This results in many people being misgendered or having to conform to a gender identity that does not accurately represent who they are. Moreover, the legal system's lack of support for those who identify as they/them is particularly concerning when it comes to cases involving domestic violence and sexual assault. These individuals often face additional barriers to accessing justice and may be further marginalized by the legal system. Opposition From Conservative Groups There has been some opposition from conservative groups who argue that recognizing non-binary gender markers on identification documents goes against traditional gender norms and could lead to confusion or fraud. However, advocates for non-binary recognition argue that it is a necessary step towards greater inclusivity and recognition of all individuals, regardless of their gender identity. Ultimately, the decision to recognize non-binary gender markers on identification documents will be up to lawmakers and policymakers. There are solutions, however, to address the concerns raised by conservative groups regarding non-binary recognition on identification documents. One potential solution could be to provide educational resources and training for government officials and individuals on the importance of recognizing non-binary gender markers. Another solution could be to implement safeguards to prevent fraud, such as requiring additional documentation or verification. Some other types of safeguards that could be implemented include biometric identification technologies, such as facial recognition, fingerprinting, or iris scanning. These technologies can be used to verify an individual's identity and prevent fraud. However, it is important to balance the need for security with the need for inclusivity. This requires a careful consideration of the potential impact on non-binary individuals and ensuring that any safeguards do not place an undue burden on them. It also requires ongoing dialogue and collaboration between stakeholders to ensure that the needs of all individuals are being met. In Conclusion The inclusion of non-binary gender markers in government-issued documents would have a significant impact on the lives and experiences of non-binary individuals in New York State. It would provide them with greater recognition and visibility and help reduce discrimination and exclusion based on gender identity. This could also lead to improvements in healthcare, housing, employment, and other services that are often difficult for non-binary individuals to access. Ultimately, it will require a collaborative effort between lawmakers, advocates, and community members to find a solution that addresses concerns while also promoting inclusivity and recognition of non­ binary individuals. There are ongoing efforts to push for legislative changes and updates to the current system to be more inclusive of non-binary individuals. Organizations like the National Center for Transgender Equality and the New York Civil Liberties Union are actively advocating for these changes. It is important for non-binary New Yorkers to consult with a lawyer who has experience navigating the legal issues related to gender identity. This can include issues related to changing legal documents, accessing healthcare services and other services, and experiencing discrimination or harassment. _________________________________________________ [1] -- Alok Vaid-Menon, Beyond the Gender Binary

May 10, 2023

Family Law

College Decision Day – Now, Who Pays?

May 1 is an important and exciting day for high school seniors around the country, as this day is known as National College Decision Day. On May 1 each year, high school seniors are required to have made their formal commitment to the university they intend to attend by accepting their offers of admission and placing their college deposits. While some states have laws that grant courts the authority to order a non-custodial parent to contribute to a child’s college expenses, New Jersey does not have this requirement. Instead, New Jersey law grants the court the discretion to require that divorced or separated parents both contribute to a child’s college education and related expenses. In Newburgh v. Arrigo, 88 N.J. 529 (1982), the Supreme Court of New Jersey set forth several factors to consider in determining parents’ college contributions. These factors include: whether the parent, if still living with the child, would have contributed toward the costs of the requested higher education; the effect of the background, values, and goals of the parent on the reasonableness of the expectation of the child for higher education; the amount of the contribution sought by the child for the cost of higher education; the ability of the parent to pay that cost; the relationship of the requested contribution to the kind of school or course of study sought by the child; the financial resources of both parents; the commitment to and aptitude of the child for the requested education; the financial resources of the child, including assets owned individually or held in custodianship or trust; the ability of the child to earn income during the school year or on vacation; the availability of financial aid in the form of college grants and loans; the child’s relationship to the paying parent, including mutual affection and shared goals as well as responsiveness to parental advice and guidance; and the relationship of the education requested to any prior training and to the overall long-range goals of the child. Id. at 545. Subsequent case law in New Jersey has narrowed the obligation for contribution to a period in which there is an affirmative request and subsequent agreement or Order directing each party’s contribution. See Gac v. Gac, 186 N.J. 535 (2006). If you are looking to require your ex-spouse/partner to contribute to your child’s college contribution, here are some tips to consider to help achieve a favorable outcome: Assist your child in first obtaining all available loans, scholarships, grants, and aid. Keep the other parent informed of what schools the child is considering, the tuition costs, etc. If the two of you do not reach an agreement as to how the costs will be paid by May or June immediately preceding the child’s metrication to university, you should make the appropriate application to the court to avoid application of Gac. We strongly recommend that you consult with a knowledgeable family law attorney licensed in New Jersey regarding the facts and nuances of your matter, as all cases are fact sensitive and specific to the family involved. If you would like to discuss this issue or any other with us, please contact us by email at Emily.Ingall@offitkurman.com and msmith@offitkurman.com or by phone at 929-476-0046 or 267-338-1378.

May 10, 2023

Family Law

Current Policy on Sealing Adoption Records and the Need for Change

Beginning in the early 1900s, almost every state in the United States enacted legislation to permanently seal an adoptee’s original birth certificate and the records from the adoption proceeding. The process of sealing an adoptee’s birth records originated to protect adoptees from social attitudes and stigmas towards illegitimacy. Throughout the early 1900s, the prevailing view was to keep records sealed until the adoptee became an adult when they could then receive their records and their birth parent’s information. Only after World War II did states enact statutes that sealed the adoption records for all parties, and the only way to release these records was by court order. This type of sealed records statute is one that most states still retain today. The process of sealing an adoptee’s birth records originated to protect adoptees from social attitudes and stigmas towards illegitimacy. In the 1970s, adoptees began challenging the sealed records process as they asserted their right to know their biological background, medical history, and related information. These challenges were brought in largely due to changes in society, specifically surrounding stigmas and views on race and religion, as transracial adoptions became popular. In many instances, society started to view adoption as a blessing. Award-winning actress and singer Kristin Chenoweth has publicly stated how she feels about her adoption — “an adoption is a full circle blessing.” In terms of her feelings regarding her birth mother, she said, “I knew my birth mother loved me so much that she wanted to give me a better life.” Chenoweth’s statements reflect a change in how society views adoption, specifically that the negative stigmas prevalent in the 1900s are no longer prevalent today. States that have passed this type of legislation require agencies to write complete adoptive profiles on the adoptee and their biological parents at the time of their adoption placement. State legislatures began responding to adoptees’ assertions of their “right to know” by enacting provisions allowing adoptees access to non-identifying information about their adoption. States that have passed this type of legislation require agencies to write complete adoptive profiles on the adoptee and their biological parents at the time of their adoption placement. Although this profile gives an adoptee some information, such as the demographics of their birth parents, states are still in control of how much information can be shared. Most only allow non-identifying information, usually consisting of descriptive details about an adoptee’s birth relatives. This information includes the date and place of birth, age of the birth parents, general physical description, race, religion, and medical history of the birth parents at the time of birth. States that have passed this type of legislation require agencies to write complete adoptive profiles on the adoptee and their biological parents at the time of their adoption placement. On the other hand, identifying information consists of names, addresses, employment, and additional information that may lead to identifying the birth parents. While non-identifying information can provide an adoptee with some sense of their background, many jurisdictions still limit the release of this information. In attempting to limit the release of information, most adoption statutes provide for all records to be sealed unless specific circumstances are met, such as a compelling demonstration of good cause, the protection and/or promotion of the welfare and best interest of the child, or medical necessity. Other states have implemented a system of good cause, establishing a burden on the requesting party to demonstrate that there is a medical or psychiatric need for the sealed information and that the information is not attainable elsewhere. In attempting to limit the release of information, most adoption statutes provide for all records to be sealed unless specific circumstances are met… However, as adoptions have become more popular and the stigmas surrounding the non-traditional family have subsided, some states have implemented programs that, while limiting, do provide adoptees with some information. For example, states such as Arkansas and Iowa have created Mutual Consent Registries. These registries are one method used to arrange the consents that are required for the release of identifying information, wherein an individual directly involved in an adoption (either the birth parent or the adoptee) can indicate their willingness, or lack thereof, in having their identifying information disclosed. However, as adoptions have become more popular and the stigmas surrounding the non-traditional family have subsided, some states have implemented programs that, while limiting, do provide adoptees with some information. While states have certainly made progress in an adoptee’s access to information in the 20th century, many of these systems are ineffective because they are not properly or commonly advertised, and there are no informational guidelines in place to demonstrate how they work. Additionally, states have made small but significant changes in recent years, and minimal information is publicized regarding the changes in place and how they impact adoptees. Curious about what your state’s laws are? Stay tuned for updates on New York and New Jersey's current laws, recent amendments, and recommended improvements.

April 26, 2023

Family Law

The State of Artificial Reproductive Technology Today

The best way to predict the future is to create it. – Abraham Lincoln. April 23-29, 2023, is National Infertility Awareness Week® (NIAW). NIAW is a movement founded in 1989 by The National Infertility Association. Its mission is to empower us all, change the conversation around infertility, raise awareness about fertility issues and promote better access to fertility care for people who need it. For most individuals and/or couples trying to have a baby, when the conversation of conceiving through natural means ends, a new dialogue begins that which focuses on having a baby with the help of artificial reproductive technology. Introduction The field of artificial reproductive technology, "ART," has made significant advancements since its inception in the mid-20th century. With the ability to manipulate and control the human reproductive system, ART has revolutionized the way we approach infertility and has also presented new ethical and legal challenges. This article will provide an overview of ART, its past, present, and future, and the myriad of legal and ethical issues it faces. Clinical Definitions, Historical Discrimination, Familial Reality and Legal Concerns Clinically/historically/ discriminatorily, infertility is a reproductive disorder defined as the failure to achieve a clinical pregnancy following at least 12 months of unprotected heterosexual intercourse1. It can be related to female factors, male factors, both, or remain unexplained. In women, it is commonly caused by ovulatory dysfunction, tubal obstructions, and/or endometriosis. In men, it is often a result of abnormalities in sperm production and function or sperm duct blockages. In helping people to have the children they desire, ART challenged and altered forever conventional clinical and societal definitions of "family." It threw open the doors for those wanting to be single parents (with no need for a partner) and has broken down the barriers for members of the LGBTQIA+ community to create their own families. The nuclear family is still often considered as an entity defined only by biological ties, even though living arrangements with children (families) have become increasingly diverse in recent decades, with unmarried families, adoptive and stepfamilies, and families with same-sex parents becoming increasingly common. ART adds to this growing complexity by providing treatments to single people and gay and lesbian couples, as well as to heterosexual couples to whom the conventional definition of infertility applies.2 These former groups have also been described as facing "social infertility." 3 The use of ART worldwide has led to the conception and birth of over nine (9) million babies since being implemented in the United Kingdom in 19784. ART, as it is commonly known, refers to any technique used to assist in the conception of a child without sexual intercourse. The most common methods of artificial reproduction include in vitro fertilization (IVF), intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), and gamete intrafallopian transfer (GIFT). There are various legal considerations when it comes to artificial reproduction. There are various laws and regulations governing these practices, including requirements for informed consent, screening and testing of donors and surrogates, and restrictions on the use of certain types of genetic material. One of the key issues is related to parental rights and responsibilities. In many cases, the child conceived through artificial reproduction will have genetic material from one or both parents who are not legally recognized as the child's parents. This can create complex legal situations, particularly if the parents separate or divorce. Another legal issue that arises in the context of artificial reproduction is the question of who has control over the genetic material used in the process. This includes issues such as sperm and egg donation, surrogacy, and embryo adoption. There are various laws and regulations governing these practices, including requirements for informed consent, screening and testing of donors and surrogates, and restrictions on the use of certain types of genetic material. Additionally, there are ethical considerations to be taken into account. Some people may have moral objections to certain methods of artificial reproduction, such as using donor eggs or sperm or creating embryos for the purpose of research. Overall, the legal landscape around artificial reproduction can be complex and is constantly evolving. It is important for individuals considering these techniques to consult with legal and medical professionals to ensure they fully understand their rights and responsibilities. ________________________________________________ 1 https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/infertility/index.htm 2 Zegers-Hochschild F., Adamson G.D., Dyer S., Racowsky C., de Mouzon J., Sokol R., Rienzi L., Sunde A., Schmidt L., Cooke I.D., Simpson J.L., van der Poel S. The International Glossary on Infertility and Fertility Care, 2017. Hum. Reprod. (Oxford, England) 2017. 3 Daar J. Yale University Press; 2017. The New Eugenics: Selective Breeding in an Era of Reproductive Technologies. [Google Scholar] [Ref list] 4 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles The Past The first successful in vitro fertilization (IVF) was achieved in 1978 by Dr. Robert Edwards and Dr. Patrick Steptoe in the United Kingdom. This groundbreaking event paved the way for numerous developments in ART, including intracytoplasmic sperm injection (ICSI), pre-implantation genetic diagnosis (PGD), and cryopreservation of eggs, sperm, and embryos. Legal regulation of ART began in the 1980s, with the United Kingdom being the first country to pass laws governing ART procedures. The U.S. followed suit with the passage of the Fertility Clinic Success Rate and Certification Act of 1992 and the creation of the American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) in 1944. This author's home state of New York did not "get with the program" until the Child-Parent Security Act of 2021. Present ART has become more widely available and accessible over the years, with clinics offering a variety of treatments and services to individuals struggling with infertility. In addition to IVF and ICSI, ART now includes egg and sperm donation, surrogacy, and gestational carrier arrangements. The legal landscape of ART is complex and varies from state to state and country to country. In the U.S., there is no federal regulation of ART, with each state having its own laws and regulations. This has led to a patchwork of laws that can be confusing for patients and providers alike. One of the most significant legal challenges facing ART today is the issue of parental rights. With surrogacy and gestational carrier arrangements, the question of who has legal rights to the child can be complicated. Additionally, the use of donor gametes raises questions about the rights of the donor and any resulting offspring. Future Advancements in ART technology are rapidly evolving, with researchers exploring new techniques to improve success rates and decrease risks. One area of focus is the use of artificial intelligence (AI) to analyze large datasets of patient information to identify factors that contribute to successful outcomes. Another promising development is the use of gene editing technology to address genetic diseases and disorders. While still in the early stages of research, this technology has the potential to revolutionize the field of ART by allowing parents to screen for and eliminate genetic diseases before implantation. Back to the Future: Legal Concerns With all the good news about ART, there are some serious issues, namely, the regulation of fertility clinics and other providers of fertility services. In many countries, including the United States, fertility clinics are subject to strict regulations that govern everything from the storage and use of genetic material to the types of services they can offer. These regulations are designed to protect patients and ensure that fertility treatments are safe and effective. Another legal consideration is the use of donor material in assisted reproduction. When donor eggs or sperm are used to fertilize an egg, there may be legal issues related to parental rights and responsibilities. Additionally, there may be questions around the ethical implications of using donor material, particularly when it comes to issues related to identity and family relationships. Another recent development that has significant legal and ethical implications is the use of donor eggs and sperm, which can allow people who are unable to conceive naturally to have children. However, this technology also raises questions about the rights of donors and the potential for unintended consequences, such as the possibility of unwitting incest between donor-conceived siblings. Another important aspect of infertility and the law is the legal rights and responsibilities of parents who conceive through these technologies. For example, in cases of surrogacy, legal agreements must be put in place to establish custody and visitation rights for the intended parents as well as the surrogate mother. Similarly, in cases of egg or sperm donation, legal agreements must be put in place to establish parental rights and responsibilities. Other legal concerns related to infertility may include issues around adoption, paternity and genetic testing, and the use of reproductive materials after death. It is important for anyone dealing with infertility to consult with an experienced attorney who can help navigate the legal landscape and protect their legal rights and interests through the process. It is also important to consider the role of insurance and other financial considerations in fertility care. In many cases, infertility treatments can be expensive, and insurance coverage may be limited or nonexistent. This can create significant barriers to access for individuals and families who need fertility care. Overall, there are many legal and ethical considerations to think about when it comes to assisted reproductive technologies. As we continue to explore the potential benefits and drawbacks of these technologies, it is important to strike a careful balance between innovation and regulation and to prioritize the needs and interests of patients above all else. Back to the Future: Ethical Concerns There have been several recent technological advancements in fertility treatments that have significant implications for the legal and ethical considerations surrounding assisted reproductive technologies. Some people argue that these technologies blur the line between natural conception and artificial intervention and that they represent a potential threat to human dignity and autonomy. Others argue that these technologies have the potential to improve the lives of millions of people around the world who struggle with infertility and other reproductive issues. One of the most important developments in this area is the use of in vitro fertilization (IVF) with pre-implantation genetic testing (PGT). This technology allows doctors to screen embryos for genetic abnormalities before they are implanted in the uterus, potentially reducing the risk of certain genetic disorders and increasing the chances of a successful pregnancy. However, PGT also raises serious ethical concerns, as it allows parents to select embryos based on their genetic characteristics, such as gender and physical characteristics, potentially leading to a future in which only certain traits are valued, and others are deemed undesirable or even unacceptable; which could lead to discrimination or perpetuate harmful societal norms. To balance these competing concerns, it is important for society to engage in open and transparent discussion about the use of PGT and to ensure that regulations are in place to prevent abuse of this technology. This could include limiting the types of conditions that can be screened for, as well as creating oversight committees to review and approve PGT applications. Additionally, it is important for individuals and families to have access to accurate and unbiased information about PGT, so they can make informed decisions about whether or not to use this technology in their own fertility treatment. By considering both the potential benefits and ethical concerns of PGT, we can work towards a more equitable and responsible approach to healthcare. Finally, there has been growing interest in the use of artificial intelligence (Al) and machine learning to improve the accuracy of fertility diagnosis and prediction. While these technologies have the potential to revolutionize fertility care, they also raise concerns about data privacy and the potential for biased algorithms to perpetuate existing inequalities in healthcare. Overall, the recent technological advancements in fertility treatments have significant legal and ethical implications, and it is crucial that we carefully consider these issues as we continue to develop and implement new and innovative technologies in this field. Conclusion Infertility and the law is a complex, multi-faceted issue that encompasses a range of legal and ethical considerations. Laws governing these practices vary state by state and country by county and may include regulations around consent, screening, and financial compensation. ART has come a long way since its inception in the late 1970s, and its future is promising. However, as technology advances, legal and ethical challenges will continue to arise. It is crucial for lawmakers and healthcare providers to work together to create clear and comprehensive regulations that protect the rights of patients and any resulting offspring.

April 13, 2023

Family Law

“Is There Another Me? How Online DNA Websites are Helping Adoptees Learn About Their History and Connect with Relatives”

DNA testing, including through websites such as 23andme.com, has become increasingly popular in recent years for individuals to obtain comprehensive ancestry breakdown, personalized health insights and more. 23 and Me is one of the programs that offers DNA testing through collection of saliva, to test both health and ancestry. Results include insights into health predispositions, carrier status, wellness, and ancestry composition, including tools to enable an individual to connect with relatives who share similar DNA. These testing programs were not always available, and in prior years, adopted individuals had no means by which they could obtain essential information such as medical background and genetic history. The documentary, Three Identical Strangers depicts the story of three identical triplets reuniting in 1980, simply by happenstance. Robert Shafran was beginning his sophomore year of college when students on campus began referring to him as “Eddy.” After lots of confusion and discussion with those referring to him as “Eddy,” Robert discovered he had an identical twin brother, Edward Galland.  When local news outlets began publishing this story, photographs of Eddy and Bobby caught people’s attention, including a woman who recognized her friend David Kellman, identical brother number three. However, what starts as a fairytale story quickly turns dark, depicting the struggle of adoptees and the lack of information they have as to their physical and psychological background. In 1995, after a long struggle with mental illness (specifically, manic depression), Eddy committed suicide. As their story continues to unfold throughout this documentary, viewers learn that the triplets' biological mother suffered immensely from mental health challenges, something that they would have been aware of had they received any information on their birth mother and their biological background. Bobby and David have since pursued the unsealing of their adoption records, but, due to confidentiality laws, access to these records is extremely limited, with a high threshold showing required to obtain even the most minimal, basic information. This film, which was released nationwide on July 13, 2018, left a lot of lingering questions surrounding psychology, science, legislation, and adoptees' rights. Stay tuned in the coming weeks for more on state-specific laws and legislation for change. For more information on Three Identical Strangers, please visit Three Identical Strangers Trailer - YouTube

April 4, 2023

So, you’re thinking about a Prenup Agreement

More and more couples and considering entering into a prenuptial agreement before marriage. It’s often concerning that even the mention of exploring an agreement would be detrimental to the relationship. The parties are basically negotiating what would happen should there be a divorce, which can cause a great deal of stress, especially if the discussions are near the wedding date. The divorce rate is generally understood to be 50%, no matter where the parties live, or what their social or economic status may be. A prenuptial agreement is a written agreement where an engaged couple considers what would happen upon separation or divorce, which may happen, if it does, at any time during the marriage. The uncertainty of when a separation may take place creates a great deal of anxiety. What if the parties separated in a few years, vis-a-vis after many years, and potentially when the parties have children? Experts suggest that since finances often contribute to conflict in marriages and may often be the reason for separation and divorce, discussing the financial aspects of an agreement may be helpful in that it may promote a foundation for a better relationship. Here are crucial requirements: Give a great deal of thought to what your goals are and what you want to accomplish in the event of separation, divorce or death. Both parties must be represented. There must be full and complete disclosure of assets and debts at the time the Agreement is executed. It must be agreed upon by both parties, and discussions should begin at least six months prior to the marriage to assure that each party is not under any duress. It must be realistic and equitable.

March 14, 2023

Family Law

DIY Divorces Recap

There’s a lot to be said for embracing a do-it-yourself (DIY) ethos. DIYers develop useful skills, sometimes discover new hobbies, and often save a great deal of money. But while plenty of DIY projects can reduce upfront costs and bring personal fulfillment, there are some things you should never, ever do yourself. Giving your house a fresh coat of paint? Go for it! Brewing beer in your garage? Sure—why not? Handling your own divorce proceedings? Not a great idea. Looking to handle a divorce or another family legal matter in the best way possible? Don’t rely on a simple document retrieval service. Offit Kurman’s Family Law attorneys are dedicated to resolving conflicts and protecting your and your family’s interests in a fast, straightforward, and cost-effective manner. See for yourself what we can do for you.

February 13, 2023

Family Law

What is Dissipation and How Does the Court Handle It?

Under Maryland Law, and in most jurisdictions, dissipation is the expenditure of marital assets for the principal purpose of reducing the funds available for equitable distribution. It usually occurs when one spouse uses marital property for their own benefit for a purpose unrelated to the marriage at a time when the marriage is undergoing an "irreconcilable breakdown."' The Courts generally do not find dissipation when marital funds are used to pay attorneys' fees. Usually, dissipation is found when one party uses marital funds for things like: a prostitute, gifts for a paramour, or extravagance far more than what would be normal family expenses. The burden of proof in most jurisdictions, both expenditures themselves, as well as the persuasion that the funds were used in a manner that deprived the other spouse in such a way that the court may make that determination, lies with the party making the allegation of dissipation. Generally, the court has great discretion in making that determination.

January 13, 2023

Family Law

My Spouse is an Alcoholic. How Will This Impact My Custody Case?

The goal is to keep the children safe while still maintaining a relationship with their alcoholic parent.  Ideally, both parents and their attorneys are on the same page with implementing safety precautions for the sake of the children.  These may include the alcoholic parent enrolling into a sobriety program and maintaining a treatment plan for sobriety through therapy, support groups, etc.  Subscribing to a live-time breathalyzer like Soberlink to ensure they are sober while the children are in their care is another helpful tool.  Some parents have interlock devices on their vehicles to avoid driving while intoxicated.  The age of the child(ren) is also a factor.  As children get older, they can call 911 should they need help, but younger children are at more risk with an alcoholic parent because they can’t simply call for help. If the alcoholic is in denial, things get more complex, and you will need to strategize with your lawyer how to best protect the child(ren). The goal is not to punish the alcoholic but to keep the children physically and emotionally safe.

January 11, 2023

Family Law

New D.C. Law Will Remove Divorce Waiting Requirements

The Council of the District of Columbia has passed a law that will eliminate the requirement that spouses live separate and apart without cohabitation before filing for divorce. On December 3, 2023, the Council passed D.C. Act 25-322, which deletes from the D.C. Code the requirement that spouses either be separated for six months if the separation is mutual and voluntary or for one year if the separation is not mutual and voluntary. The bill is awaiting congressional review and should be approved in early 2024. After the bill is approved by Congress, parties seeking divorce need only establish that they no longer wish to remain married. The new legislation is significant because it will allow parties to seek court intervention immediately rather than having to wait six months or a year before filing for divorce. D.C. Act 25-322 is also significant because it adds a new requirement that the Court take into consideration the history of physical, emotional, and financial abuse by one party against the other in awarding alimony and distributing marital property and debt. Finally, the legislation adds a provision to the D.C. Code that gives the court discretion to award exclusive use of the family home or any other dwelling unit available for use as a residence while the divorce case is pending. A copy of D.C. Act 25-322 is available online at B25-0042 – Grounds for Divorce, Legal Separation, and Annulment Amendment Act of 2023 (dccouncil.gov).

December 18, 2022

Family Law

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West settlement: is $200,000 a Month in Child Support Reasonable?

Child support is an obligation established by the Court to ensure that both parents, regardless of their relationship with each other, financially support their children to the best of their ability. Alternatively, as did Kim and Ye, the parties are permitted to agree to a number so long as it comports with the State specific guidelines. Depending on the State in which the children reside, the Court will use State specific guidelines and formulas to calculate a parent’s basic child support obligation. While the guidelines provide a presumptive amount of child support for parties with a combined net income that falls within the guidelines, most States provide exceptions for parents with extreme income (high or low). High net worth child support cases are more complicated and involve consideration of all expenses of the child(ren) in light of the parents’ extreme income (i.e., high incomes exceeding the guidelines). In New Jersey, the parties’ respective incomes are subject to a formulaic calculation and consideration of the factors set forth in N.J.S.A. 2A:34-23(a). The New Jersey Rules of Court Appendix IX-A, Considerations in the Use of Child Support Guidelines defines extreme parental income as a combined after-tax income in excess of $187,200 annually. In such circumstances, the Court is obligated to supplement the basic child support amount after consideration of the aforementioned factors. In New York, the parties’ respective incomes are subject to a formulaic calculation pursuant to the Child Support Standards Act [DRL §240, FCA §413] to determine the presumptively correct child support obligation. The C.S.S.A. applies up to the applicable combined income cap. Effective March 1, 2022, the income cap for child support calculations was set at a combined income of $163,000 (not adjusted for Federal or State income taxes). This income cap is subject to an adjustment every two years. In New York, the Court may choose to apply the formulaic percentage to the income in excess of the cap, or it may choose to specifically supplement support based upon the above-capped income pursuant to the enumerated factors. While there is no way to know whether or not the agreed-upon monthly child support in the Kardashian matter is reasonable, in New Jersey, the Court would engage in a fact-intensive analysis of the children’s needs and lifestyle to supplement the basic child support. That is, “where the parties have the financial wherewithal to provide for their children, the children are entitled to the benefit of financial advantages available to them.” Isaacson v. Isaacson, 348 N.J.Super. 560, 579 (App.Div. 2008). In fact, “children are entitled to not only bare necessities, but a supporting parent has the obligation to share with his children the benefit of his financial achievement.” Id. at 580. However, as the Court held in Isaacson, “no child, no matter how wealthy the parents, needs to be provided [with] more than three ponies.” Id. at 584. Calculating and determining a child support obligation can be a complicated process with long-term consequences, affecting your finances for years to come. Our firm is well-equipped to handle all divorce and family law matters, no matter your circumstances. You can contact Emily to discuss your child support matter in New York or New Jersey by email at Emily.Ingall@offitkurman.com or by phone at 929-476-0046.

December 8, 2022

Family Law

Dividing Stocks in Divorce

If your spouse has stocks, they will need to be identified as marital or non-marital, valued and divided or offset with another marital asset. Public stock is simple to value.  Once a valuation date is determined, the answer lies in the market’s figures.  Assuming the stock is all marital, and the parties agree to divide it equally, I recommend the parties work with an accountant or representative from the financial institution to ensure the division is as equal as possible considering the cost basis, so one party is not left with a major tax liability. Restricted stock units (RSU) can be a bit trickier because there is no market price to look up.  RSUs are a common incentive for employees in private companies.  They are granted to employees to incentivize them to grow with the business.  RSUs do not have a value when they are granted; instead, they have a vesting schedule.  Once they vest, they have value.   The vesting schedule is important in your divorce and your jurisdiction.  For instance, if the RSUs were granted before the marriage and vested after the marriage, there is some marital component, and you may need an expert to trace the amount.  What comes up more often is when the RSUs are granted during the marriage but do not vest until after the marriage.  Some states consider the unvested RSUs marital, and some do not.  RSUs are also taxed, so that will need to be considered when dividing or negotiating RSUs. There are several ways to divide stocks in a divorce.  The spouse who has the stock may keep them in exchange for another marital asset or offsetting the marital estate somehow.  The parties may decide to divide the public stock.  The parties may agree to equally divide the net value of the stock if, as and when it vests.  Some parties agree to sell and divide the stock prior to divorcing for tax purposes.  There are many other ways to slice the stock pie, but the best option will vary in different divorce cases.  Bottom line is that stocks can become complex, and you need an attorney who knows to ask the right questions, gather the right documents, and reach out to a competent accountant when necessary.

October 31, 2022

Family Law

Can My Spouse Take My Business?

The law may differ slightly from jurisdiction to jurisdiction. Generally, businesses started during the marriage will be determined to be marital property to be divided upon divorce. If the business is a partnership or a corporation, ownership by title will be determined. Suppose a spouse owns 100% of the business because of the stock ownership or the partnership interest or because of other evidence of ownership. In that case, the Court will generally require that the business be valued, and then a determination will be made as to whether the spouse who does not have an interest in the business will receive a buyout or an offset from other assets. Business valuations are performed by experts. Often the parties will agree to use one business valuation expert as a neutral. However, in the spouses cannot agree on one valuation expert, there may be substantial variance in the opinions of the experts representing the interest of the parties. Those situations require the assistance of an attorney who has specific knowledge regarding business valuations and who has the ability to work with experts in the field. Often there is a determination of personal goodwill. In those cases, an expert may opine that the value of the business is, in whole or in part, attributable to the owner of the business. In that case, the personal goodwill will not be divided upon divorce. This determination can be hotly contested in a divorce situation. If the spouses each own an interest in a business, it is often partitioned in some way by a transfer of ownership between the spouses, with an offset for other assets or a buyout. When dealing with businesses that began prior to the marriage, the entire business is not necessarily marital. Once again, a business valuation may be hired to determine the value of the business at the time of the marriage and the current value of the business. The spouse who does not own an interest in the business may argue that the increase in value is marital and should be divided equitably or equally between the parties, depending upon the applicable statutes and case law.

October 28, 2022

Marriage on the Rocks

Marriage on the Rocks: Prepping for Your First Meeting with Your Lawyer

Rachel Mech and Emily Shank discuss how to prepare for your first meeting with your lawyer. Emily Shank, who is featured in this video, is no longer affiliated with Offit Kurman.

September 30, 2022

Marriage on the Rocks

Marriage on the Rocks: Prenups- The Good, the Bad, the Funny

Rachel Mech and Emily Shank talk prenups – the good, the bad, and the funny. Emily Shank, who is featured in this video, is no longer affiliated with Offit Kurman.

September 9, 2022

Family Law

Separation? Where Do I Start?

If you are contemplating a separation, or if you believe that your spouse is, where do you begin? Collect and preserve financial information. This will include tax returns and information regarding income and expenses, such as check registers, checking account statements and credit card statements. You will also want information regarding assets and liabilities. If you have done a loan application for a mortgage or refinance, that will be a very helpful summary. You also want to secure information regarding 401K’s, retirement and investment accounts and the like. If there is a business involved, any documentation regarding the business would be an integral part of the information you will need. Information regarding real estate. HUD-1 forms from the purchase and sale of real estate are essential for tracing. If any assets were acquired using non-marital funds by either party, that information should be provided to your attorney. Non-marital asset tracing would include funds or assets owned by either party prior to the marriage, gifts from a third party, inheritances or anything traced to those funds. Consider available funds. You will need funds to retain counsel and experts and enough funds to pay ongoing bills for at least a short period of time. Familiarize yourself with bank accounts and investment accounts that would be accessible to acquire a new place to live and other expenses for at least a few months’ time. Consider options for living arrangements. Although you do not want to move before consulting with an attorney and considering all of your options, it will be beneficial for you to know whether you can afford to remain in your current home if that’s an option. And, if you must move, what kind of residence would be appropriate for you (and for your children)? Consult with a divorce attorney. Seek referrals from trusted friends who have had divorce experiences, estate and trust lawyers, accountants, therapists, and others who can give you names of competent attorneys. You may want to consult with more than one before making the decision as to who should represent you. Always consider peer evaluations, such as Super Lawyers, Best Lawyers, and, of course, the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML). Membership in the AAML is an organization of the top divorce lawyers in the country. Both Cheryl Hepfer and Sandy Brooks are Fellows of the AAML. Make your children your primary concern. For any parent contemplating separation and divorce, the best interest of their children is of great concern. An experienced divorce attorney can give you advice regarding the process options for you to consider and can provide information that will make this less frightening.

August 24, 2022

Family Law

Should I File a Joint Tax Return with My Separated Spouse?

When it comes time to file tax returns, those of our clients who are separated but not yet divorced often ask our opinion. As with many issues, there are some benefits to filing a joint return. However, there may also be unexpected consequences. When spouses file jointly, they are each responsible for all of the reported information. Each spouse can be held responsible for tax liability, which can include interest and penalties. One concern, therefore, is whether the other spouse has had adequate withholding or has paid their quarterly tax obligation in full and on time. We do not recommend a client file jointly if they are concerned their spouse has not been honest about income or deductions. On the other hand, there are significant benefits of filing jointly, such as lower tax brackets. Filing jointly rather than filing married filing separately can save money. You may qualify for filing as head of household. You may need guidance from an independent accountant or a competent family law attorney. Concerns may include who can get certain deductions, how to divide resulting tax liability, and how a refund may be divided.

August 22, 2022

Marriage on the Rocks

Marriage on the Rocks: How to (not) Ruin Your Case

Offit Kurman family law attorneys explore lessons from the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard Trial and other ways to ruin your case. Emily Shank, who is featured in this video, is no longer affiliated with Offit Kurman.

August 12, 2022

Family Law

Mediation Tips from A Mediator and Retired Judge Sandy Brooks’ interview with Retired Judge Michael Mason

Sandy:  How long have you been a mediator, and approximately how many matters do you mediate a year? Judge Mason:  I’ve been mediating since approximately January 2019. Last year, I did just short of 80 mediations. Sandy:  Of the cases you mediate, how many are family law matters? And of the family law matters, how many do you estimate reach a settlement through mediation? Judge Mason:  Around 40% of the cases I mediate are family cases. I would estimate approximately 85% are resolved through mediation. Sandy: Do you believe your background as a Circuit Court Judge benefits you as a mediator in family law cases? Judge Mason:  Yes. I think frequently, the attorneys for both parties have a reasonable sense of where the case should settle. Often the problem is getting the clients to accept that outcome is reasonable. I think coming to the mediation with years of experience as a judge who’s seen a lot of these cases can help convince the clients the result is a reasonable one, even if not one they are particularly happy with. Sandy: What are some of the most complex family law issues to mediate? Judge Mason:  The most difficult cases to mediate are relocation cases and cases that involve allegations of abuse that are not independently corroborated. It’s very difficult in those matters to find some middle ground the parties can accept. The other difficult ones are those where the economically dominant spouse is self-employed and his/her income varies significantly from year to year, frequently taking a downturn once the divorce is anticipated. Also, those where the parties’ assets include a business which requires valuation. The valuations are normally miles apart. Sandy:  Do you have any advice for attorneys prior to mediation? Judge Mason:  Yes, always talk to the mediator and let them know what you honestly think might get the case settled. If there is a problem with the client, let them know. Also, make sure you’ve shared any important documents you intend to rely on at the mediation with the other side in advance so they have a chance to review it. Usually, the other side will totally discount any information they are seeing for the first time at the mediation without an opportunity to check it. As well, they typically resent it being given to them at the last moment, and that can affect their view of the other attorney. Sandy: Do you have any pointers for the parties to maximize their success at mediation? Judge Mason:  Be prepared. Don’t wait until the morning of the mediation to prepare your joint property statement unless there is none to speak of. Get your pre-mediation statement to the mediator in time, so they have a chance to review it and any exhibits in enough time to speak to you in advance of the mediation. Have the key documents that support your position readily available during the mediation and share them with the other side in advance. Understand the attorney on the other side is generally not your enemy or being a jerk. Their client has a very different view of the relationship, which they have communicated to the attorney. The attorney is typically acting based upon those facts, which are very different from the ones that guide you. Sandy: What are some strategies for moving the parties past an impasse? Judge Mason:  Sometimes, when the parties feel they’ve reached an impasse, I’ve found it helpful to recess the mediation for a few days/weeks. Often after the parties have a chance to get away from the immediate negotiations for a while, they will reassess their positions. On occasion, I’ve also found it helpful to offer the parties a mediator’s suggestion to help bridge a gap. I propose a solution which they are free to accept or reject. Neither party is told if either accepts the proposal unless both do. Judge Michael Mason began practicing law in Maryland in 1974. He spent ten years in the Montgomery County State’s Attorney’s office. He was the head of the Career Criminal Unit when he left in 1984 to set up a small general practice with two other prosecutors, Judy Catterton & Paul Kemp. They were later joined by a third, Martha Kavanaugh. He was in private practice for about ten years, and they did a little bit of everything that involved going to court. In January of 1994, he was appointed by Governor William Donald Shaefer as an Associate Judge of the Circuit Court for Montgomery County. He was sworn in as judge in March of 1994. He served full-time as an Associate Judge until December 2018, when he retired. He continues to sit as a Senior judge on an as-needed basis.   He served numerous rotations as a family judge during his almost 25 years full-time on the bench. He occasionally hears some matters as a family judge. Beginning in January of 2019, he began a private mediation practice and has since mediated well over 200 cases. The largest single segment of the cases he mediates are family cases, but he does a wide range of other civil cases.

July 18, 2022

Family Law

Alternatives To Court

Litigation can be scary and expensive, emotionally as well as financially. But you do not necessarily have to go to Court to resolve issues in a divorce. The first step in determining how best to proceed is to discuss your options with experienced counsel who specialize in family law. Family law is a unique area of the law, and only those lawyers with experience have the level of knowledge and sophistication to evaluate your options with you. Often, cases can be resolved by negotiation through counsel. But there are other options available, and since divorce can be complex and complicated, one should consider all of them. Mediation is often used in family law, even if the parties are already engaged in litigation. Trained mediators facilitate agreements. They do not impose their position on either of the parties. Rather, a good mediator will challenge both parties not to expect their “best day in Court.” Reality often sets in, and parties recognize the pros and cons of their positions. Mediation often leads to an agreement, which can be incorporated into a Judgment of Divorce. Many attorneys who specialize in family law are now trained to handle cases in a collaborative process. This process permits the parties to evaluate their goals and explore options in a joint meeting setting. Another option is arbitration, where an arbitrator more or less substitutes for a Judge. However, unlike in a Court situation, the parties are able to select their arbitrator, determine what issues will be presented, set time limits, and control the amount of evidence that must be formally presented. In addition, there is some degree of privacy that is not typical in divorce situations.

July 15, 2022

Family Law

When to File for Divorce in Maryland

Many people looking to file for divorce don’t know where to start or how urgently they should proceed with the filing. Some couples, in the emotionally-charged act of separating from one another, make the mistake of jumping straight into filing without considering all of their options. Generally speaking, it’s best if the parties can work things out with counsel before filing for divorce; this approach is ideal and may save them a lot of financial and emotional stress in the long run. Once a party files, the attorney’s fees tend to increase due to court-imposed deadlines, so avoiding that time crunch altogether is beneficial for everyone involved. If the parties manage to work with counsel to exchange all of the information and documentation before filing, counsel may be able to help the parties come to a resolution outside of court; if they are reaching an impasse, the next step may be to try mediation. If mediation fails and they’ve exhausted all settlement efforts, counsel may then recommend that they go ahead and file. Obviously, some divorces are messier than others, and parties cannot always be collaborative like this, so sometimes it is necessary to file immediately—especially if the court needs to quickly intervene with regards to children and custody issues. The first step when deciding to file for divorce should always be to seek the help of an experienced divorce or family law attorney. In the state of Maryland, it’s possible that certain forms must be filed days or weeks before the trial (depending on the county)—an experienced divorce lawyer should be able to help you keep on top of these due dates. Some of the forms you may need to fill out may include documents detailing your property and how each party thinks it should be divided, financial documentation, request for financial support from one party to another, and more. The many forms, as well as the varying practices of each court, can make the process of filing for divorce a little muddy, which is why pursuing divorce without legal representation can be risky business.

May 19, 2022

Family Law

Traveling with Toddlers on Planes

Here are nine tips for traveling with Toddlers in today’s world: Be prepared for dirty objects that find their way to your toddler. Bring along plenty of sanitizing wipes and keep them within easy reach. Pack at least two extra outfits as, sometimes, one is just not enough. Ask every flight attendant and gate agent you see if the flight is full. If not, ask if they can move people around so that your family gets a coveted free middle seat. Always carry a small medical kit with you – should include travel-size essentials – Band-Aids, Neosporin, Tylenol, Benadryl, and keep it in your carry-on for easy access. There may be some in the plane’s medical kit, but who knows for sure! Take loads of snacks in small containers or ziplock bags. Choose a variety to keep the little one satisfied – fruit, vegetables, pouches, biscuits, crackers, cheese nibbles, etc. There may be delays, and the stuff you can buy at the airport is expensive! Take a large scarf that you can wrap around the little one. Sometimes feeling snug as a bug helps them unwind and relax. Changes in air pressure can be very difficult for little ones, so take pacifiers and empty bottles that you can refill with water or juice supplied by the airlines to help them a bit. Stretch your legs and walk up and down the aisle. It really helps change the scenery for the little ones, and you may actually get some smiles and fist-bumps from adult passengers on the aisle. If you are traveling with another adult, send them on first to get some overhead compartment space for your carry-on, and then wait until the last minute to board with your child. It may seem insignificant, but those extra 10 minutes before boarding are treasured moments.

May 18, 2022

Family Law

Avoid the Common Mistake of Commingling Assets

In divorce cases, it is not unusual to find that a client has at some point during the marriage commingled nonmarital assets with marital assets, making it difficult or impossible to prove that the assets should be retained by the client at the time of divorce. In Maryland and the District of Columbia, assets acquired by a spouse prior to the marriage or by gift or inheritance are that spouse’s nonmarital property. Commingling of assets occurs when a marital asset is mixed in with a nonmarital asset. One example of this common mistake is when a client has funds in a bank account that existed prior to the marriage and then begins depositing funds earned during the marriage into that same account. Another example is when a spouse receives an inheritance or a gift during the marriage and commingles the inherited or gifted funds with marital funds acquired during the marriage. In those situations, the separate property can lose the quality of being nonmarital, meaning that the commingled funds might be deemed marital property and divided by the court at the time of divorce. To ensure that nonmarital assets will not be deemed marital property at the time of divorce, the best course of action is to keep them separate during the marriage by maintaining a separate bank account. It is also prudent to execute a prenuptial agreement prior to the marriage identifying which property will remain nonmarital at the time of divorce. To prove that an asset is nonmarital at the time of divorce, retaining documentation is vital. Account statements are frequently used to prove that funds in an account are a spouse’s nonmarital assets. If you have nonmarital assets that you want to remain your separate property, hold on to those old account statements establishing how and when you acquired the assets because they might not be available from banks or other financial institutions 10, 20, or 30 years later when you are getting divorced. It might also be necessary to employ a forensic expert to prove that the assets are nonmarital, depending upon the situation. Everyone goes into their marriage hoping it will last forever, but you would be wise to avoid the common mistake of commingling just in case it doesn’t.

May 16, 2022

Family Law

Consider Whether an Expert is Necessary for Your Family Law Case

In “My Cousin Vinny,” arguably one of the best movies of all time, the character Mona Lisa Vito, played by Marisa Tomei, testifies as an automotive expert in a criminal case and provides an opinion about an automotive issue (positraction) that wins the case and results in the acquittal of two young men charged with murder. Experts are often necessary in litigation to provide professional opinions on complex issues in a wide range of cases. In any family law case, one of the strategic decisions a client must make with their attorney at the outset is whether to hire an expert. The following are some of the experts that parties to a family law case should consider hiring depending upon the issues in your family law case: Forensic accountant: Investigates whether a party has hidden assets and income, traces parties’ assets to nonmarital sources such as premarital assets, inheritance or gifts, or rebuts claims by the opposing party that certain property is nonmarital or marital. Business evaluation expert: Determines the economic value of a business owned by one of the parties in a divorce case so that the Court can consider the value of the business in the distribution of marital property. Real estate appraiser: Determines the value of the marital home, vacation homes, commercial properties owned by the parties, and any other real property that may be subject to distribution. Custody evaluator: Makes recommendations as to legal and physical custody of children after interviewing the parties, third parties, and the children, observing the parties and children, reviewing relevant documents, and in some cases performing psychological testing. Vocational expert: In cases involving claims for alimony, testifies as to the ability of a party to obtain and maintain employment and the amount of income the party is capable of earning. Attorneys’ fees expert: A lawyer who has substantial experience practicing family law and opines as to the reasonableness of attorneys’ fees incurred by the parties for the purpose of obtaining an award of attorneys’ fees or opposing a claim for attorneys’ fees. Courts often impose deadlines for the designation of experts early in the case. Failure to designate an expert by the court-ordered deadline can result in a party not being permitted to have an expert testify. An expert will explain complex issues to the Court in the presentation of your case and can rebut the opinions of experts hired by the opposing party. An expert can also provide valuable advice during the discovery process, preparation for trial, and settlement negotiations. That is why it is so important to retain an expert in accordance with the court’s deadline and have the expert begin working on the case. It also helps to have an attorney who knows the expert, has worked with the expert in the past and is confident that the expert will provide compelling testimony and opinions that will be accepted by the court at trial.

May 6, 2022

Family Law

How to Manage the Expense of a Family Law Case

It is a concern that every client has, but few are willing to discuss with their counsel. So, what are some tips to keeping your fees as low as possible? You can control some of the expenses, but not all of them. What you cannot control is the reasonableness of your spouse or the other attorney. But what you can control may make a significant difference in the expenses associated with your case. Be aware of the fact that divorce cases require disclosure regarding income, expenses, assets and liabilities. The more documents you can locate and provide to your attorney in an organized manner, the better. Generally, we are seeking three years’ worth of records, including tax returns, credit card statements, etc. But it’s also helpful to provide information regarding how and when the assets were acquired. We normally recommend that our clients prepare a chronology of important events, so that we can refer to that document in the future if needed, and we will then be able to fill in some of the blanks that may arise in the future. Because tracing of non-marital funds may be a significant part of a case, documents that trace funds that are premarital, inherited, or gifts from a third party will make a huge difference in educating your attorney in a coherent and organized way. You may not know the value of all of your assets, but you can do some research that will help get the value in the ballpark. Be responsive to requests from your lawyer for documents and information. If your lawyer is looking for the information, it’s because there is a need for it. The sooner you can provide the information, the better. Be aware of the fact that most attorneys rely upon a team, that often includes a paralegal, an administrative assistant and associates. That is often to your benefit, as their hourly rates are generally lower than that of the lead attorney. Show them respect and respond to them just as you would your lead attorney. Listen to your attorney’s recommendations. It’s your case, but there may be opportunities for compromise and settlement that occur early on or later in the case. If you delay considering a resolution until the day before trial, you have incurred substantial fees and costs associated with litigation. Rely upon your lawyer’s advice. That’s why we are often called “counselors.”

November 18, 2021

Family Law

How Long Will I Have to Pay Alimony?

When a couple gets divorced, one party may need to financially support the other party in some shape or form; this divorce-specific monetary support is referred to as alimony. When a client learns that they may be required to pay alimony, they understandably want to know how long they’ll have to make those payments. In order to answer this question, it’s important to first understand that there are three types of alimony in Maryland: pendente lite, indefinite and rehabilitative. The type of alimony a party will be required to pay is discretionary to the judge. Pendente lite alimony is fairly straightforward.  Pendente Lite is Latin for pending litigation, and these are payments that a higher-earning party pays to the lower-earning party during the divorce proceedings only. The payments are meant to maintain the family finances at, or as close to, status quo as possible during the legal process of divorce. The definition of indefinite alimony is exactly as it sounds: alimony that has no specific end date. Indefinite alimony is ordered when a dependent party is unlikely to ever become self-supporting. This type of alimony is typically established in cases of long marriages where one spouse did not work outside the home for many years, or when one party is unlikely to acquire a self-supporting income due to age, illness or disability. Indefinite alimony ends if one of the parties dies, or the dependent party remarries.  Indefinite alimony may end upon modification of the court or a written agreement between the parties. Rehabilitative alimony is meant to provide support to the lower-earning party for a period of time long enough for him or her to become self-supporting. This is the most common type of alimony awarded, and it usually has an end date. In most cases, this means that the higher-earning party will support the lower-earning party while that person takes the time to acquire the necessary job training or education needed for employment. In some cases, the higher-earning party may need to pay for the lower-earning party’s education to help them become self-supporting. As mentioned, the type of alimony one pays is solely up to the judge; however, if the parties prefer to negotiate alimony amongst themselves, they may come to an agreement as to the terms, but the judge will still have to approve it to ensure that the agreement is fair to both parties. If you have any questions on this topic, please contact Sandra Brooks at sbrooks@offitkurman.com or 240.507.1716.

November 17, 2021

Family Law

What’s the Deal with Adultery in Maryland?

Adultery is a misdemeanor in Maryland, punishable by a $10 fine. It’s doubtful that a prosecutor would ever prosecute that crime, but it may have a consequence in a divorce case. So what’s the big deal? There are two areas where an allegation of adultery has a role in the family law arena. First of all, there are the emotional or psychological considerations. The one who has committed adultery may be embarrassed and may not want those allegations to appear in a pleading that is filed in Court. These pleadings are public record, and, even if no one in the press is interested, children, grandchildren, friends and neighbors may, at some time in the future, access those pleadings. The “innocent” spouse may believe that he/she has a “leg up,” and use the possibility of relying upon those formal allegations in negotiations. The allegation of adultery, however, does not have the same stigma that it did when I began practicing law, many years ago. The “legal” consequences of an allegation of adultery is that, should the case be litigated, the Court is to consider fault as one factor of many in determining both an award of alimony and a division of the marital property. Generally adultery that occurs subsequent to a separation, but while the parties are still legally married, is not nearly as concerning as an adulterous relationship that caused or contributed to the separation. Since even if proven to be true, the allegation of fault is only one of many factors to be considered. And, since that Court has great discretion in making those decisions, the impact of the fault grounds can be significant or minimal. There’s a risk, and that’s the concern/consequence that the parties and their counsel must consider.

September 22, 2021