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Marriage Equality and the Supreme Court: Preparing for the Unexpected
Big news dropped this week, and it’s one of those stories that makes my phone start buzzing with texts from clients, friends, and family asking: “Could the Supreme Court actually take away marriage equality?” Kim Davis, the Kentucky clerk who famously refused to issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples, has asked the Court to overturn Obergefell v. Hodges, the 2015 decision legalizing marriage equality nationwide. For Davis, the appeal is about religious beliefs, but for LGBTQ+ families, it’s about the security of marriages and rights. Can the Supreme Court Overturn Obergefell? For Davis, the case is based on her personal beliefs and most experts think it’s a long shot to undo marriage equality entirely. Still, this Court has surprised us before. Justice Thomas has already suggested revisiting Obergefell, and the fact that the question is back before the Court is a reminder that the fight isn’t over. What Would Happen if Obergefell Were Overturned? If Obergefell were overturned, some states could stop issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples almost overnight. Old bans and “trigger laws” are still sitting on the books in many states. However, due to the 2022 Respect for Marriage Act, current same-sex marriages would almost certainly still be recognized nationwide. Under this law, if a same-sex couple is legally married in one state, every other state and the federal government must honor that marriage, even if the couple later moves to a state that bans it. Why Does This Matter if You’re Already Married? Some may assume, “Well, we’re already married, so we’re fine.” Not necessarily. Without Obergefell, certain rights could become more difficult to enforce at the state level, such as hospital visitation, inheritance without a will, or the ability to make medical decisions for your spouse. For families with children, especially when only one parent is biologically related, the stakes are even higher. Steps to Take Now Make your family “court-proof.” Ensure you have legal documents in place, including wills, healthcare proxies, powers of attorney, and guardianship documents for kids. Lock in parental rights. A court order, such as a second-parent adoption, is recommended to make parental rights secure, even when both parents’ names appear on the birth certificate. Know your safe states. In areas with an uncertain record on LGBTQ+ rights, it’s important to know where your family would be protected in the event of upheaval. Stay engaged. Local and state protections matter. Back ballot measures and candidates who will uphold marriage equality in your state constitution. Final Thoughts Though it seems unlikely that Obergefell will be reversed in the immediate future, it would be unwise to become complacent or to assume it is beyond challenge. Now is the time to double-check your legal safety net, because the best time to protect your family is before the storm starts.
August 13, 2025
Family Law
Essential Legal Protections for LGBTQ+ Families in a Shifting Political Climate
In recent years, LGBTQ+ rights have made significant progress, providing many LGBTQ+ families with stronger legal protections, including marriage equality and anti-discrimination laws. However, shifts in the political landscape can bring uncertainty, making it critical for LGBTQ+ families to proactively protect their rights and ensure the stability of their family structure within the legal system. As legal challenges to established rights increase and state-level protections fluctuate, LGBTQ+ families face a pressing need to safeguard their rights with extra care, vigilance, and planning. Below are some legal strategies to help LGBTQ+ families secure protection and stability, regardless of changes in the political climate. Wills and Estate Planning Documents Wills and estate plans are essential for all families, but they hold particular importance for LGBTQ+ families, who may face unique legal challenges influenced by the political climate. A well-drafted will ensures that your wishes are clear and your assets are distributed according to your intentions. Without a will, intestacy laws in your state could determine the division of your assets, which may not align with your wishes or reflect your family structure. Advanced Directives Advanced directives, including documents such as a living will and durable power of attorney for healthcare, are vital for LGBTQ+ families. These documents empower you to designate a partner or spouse as your decision-maker in medical situations where you’re unable to make decisions yourself. Without these documents, other family members—who may not support your relationship—could potentially gain legal standing to make decisions on your behalf. Second-Parent Adoptions For LGBTQ+ couples raising children, second-parent adoption offers an added layer of legal security, especially when one parent is the biological or adoptive parent. This process allows the non-biological parent to legally adopt their partner’s child without the biological parent losing any parental rights. It ensures that both parents have full legal rights to the child, regardless of marital status or potential changes in the law, providing stability and protection for the family structure. Family Planning For LGBTQ families, family planning needs may include adoption, surrogacy, fertility treatments, and other reproductive services. Access to these services can be impacted by laws that regulate reproductive healthcare or place restrictions based on sexual orientation or gender identity. Legal professionals can help safeguard parental rights by drafting clear agreements, ensuring all legal parental statuses are properly documented, and staying informed on shifting policies. Estate Planning for Non-Biological Parents Estate planning is especially crucial for non-biological parents in LGBTQ+ families. Without proper legal protections, these parents may encounter challenges in securing custody or inheritance rights for the children they have raised. Comprehensive estate planning can help protect these relationships and ensure the family’s intentions are honored. Given the potential for changes in state and federal policies, LGBTQ+ families can benefit immensely from working with a knowledgeable attorney to address their unique legal needs. A skilled attorney will not only ensure that all documents are legally sound but will also help anticipate potential changes in laws that could impact your family. By working with an attorney experienced in these areas, you can proactively address any legal gaps and feel confident that your rights will be protected, regardless of the political landscape.
November 8, 2024
Family Law
Creative Co-Parenting Ideas for a Memorable Halloween Celebration
Halloween is a magical time for kids, filled with costumes, candy, and spooky fun. However, for co-parents, it can also pose challenges when it comes to sharing the holiday. With a little planning, it's possible to ensure that Halloween remains special for your children while also making co-parenting during this festive season easier for both parents. Here are some creative custody arrangements to consider: Split the Day: One parent can take the morning and early afternoon with the kids, filled with activities like Halloween crafts, pumpkin carving, or a spooky movie marathon. The other parent can then take over for trick-or-treating in the evening, letting each parent create special memories. Alternate Years: One year, the kids spend Halloween with one parent, and the next year, they switch. This arrangement allows each parent to create their own unique traditions every other year, ensuring everyone gets their turn to enjoy the holiday. Double the Fun: If you and your co-parent live nearby, consider splitting the trick-or-treating route. Start in one neighborhood and finish in the other, allowing both parents to share in the excitement while creating a seamless and fun experience for the children. Host a Joint Halloween Party: If you have a friendly co-parenting relationship, why not throw a joint Halloween party? This allows both parents to celebrate with the kids together, fostering a fun and inclusive environment while building positive memories as a family. Halloween Week: Extend the festivities! One parent could focus on pre-Halloween activities like haunted house visits or costume shopping while the other takes charge on Halloween night. This gives the kids a full week of fun and ensures both parents get quality time to enjoy the season. The key is to create an arrangement that works best for your family. Open communication and flexibility are crucial in ensuring your children have a fun and memorable Halloween, regardless of where they celebrate. Even if co-parenting presents its challenges, thoughtful planning can make Halloween a joyful and fun occasion for everyone. Wishing you all a Happy Halloween filled with wonderful memories!
October 15, 2024
Family Law
Understanding Alimony in Maryland: Types, Factors, and How It's Awarded
When a marriage ends, financial considerations often play a significant role in the divorce process. One key financial aspect is alimony, also known as spousal support. Alimony provides financial assistance to a spouse who may be at an economic disadvantage post-divorce, helping them to transition to their new circumstances. In Maryland, courts award alimony based on specific guidelines and factors to ensure a fair outcome for both parties. This blog explores how alimony is awarded in Maryland and what factors influence the court's decision. Types of Alimony in Maryland Maryland law recognizes three primary types of alimony: Temporary Alimony (Pendente Lite): Awarded during divorce proceedings, temporary alimony helps the financially dependent spouse maintain stability until a final decision is reached. This type of alimony ensures that immediate financial needs are met while the divorce is ongoing. Rehabilitative Alimony: This is the most common type awarded in Maryland. It is intended to provide financial support for a specific period, allowing the recipient to become self-sufficient through education, training, or employment. The goal is to equip the recipient with the skills or resources necessary to achieve financial independence. Indefinite Alimony: In some cases, the court may award indefinite alimony when the recipient spouse cannot reasonably be expected to become self-supporting. This type is less common and is typically granted when there is a significant disparity in earning capacities or if the recipient is of advanced age or has health conditions that prevent self-sufficiency. Understanding these types of alimony is crucial as they set the stage for how courts assess individual cases. Factors Influencing Alimony Awards When determining whether to award alimony, as well as the amount and duration of the payments, Maryland courts consider several key factors: Ability to be Wholly or Partly Self-Supporting: The court examines the recipient's potential to gain employment or improve their financial situation through education or training. Time Necessary to Gain Sufficient Education or Training: The court considers how long it will take for the recipient to acquire the skills needed to become self-supporting. Standard of Living During the Marriage: The court aims to maintain a standard of living for the recipient that is reasonably comparable to that enjoyed during the marriage. Duration of the Marriage: Longer marriages are more likely to result in alimony awards, particularly indefinite alimony, especially when there is a significant disparity in earning capacities. Contributions to the Family: The court evaluates the monetary and non-monetary contributions made by each spouse, including homemaking and child-rearing responsibilities. Circumstances Leading to Estrangement: Fault-based factors, such as adultery or abuse, may be considered when determining alimony awards. Age and Physical and Mental Condition: The court assesses the physical and mental condition of both spouses health and age of both spouses, as these factors can impact the recipient's ability to become self-supporting. Paying Spouse's Ability to Meet Their Own Needs: The court ensures that the paying spouse can afford the alimony payments without undue hardship. Agreements Between the Parties: Any prenuptial or postnuptial agreements may influence the court's decision regarding alimony. Conclusion: Alimony is a crucial aspect of divorce proceedings in Maryland, designed to provide financial support to a spouse in need. Understanding the various types of alimony, the factors that influence the court's decision, and the potential for modifying alimony awards can help individuals navigate this complex aspect of divorce more effectively. If you are facing a divorce and have questions about alimony, consulting with an experienced family law attorney can provide valuable guidance, ensuring your rights are protected.
September 26, 2024
Family Law
Back to School! Now What?
As summer comes to a close and children prepare to return to school, many divorced or separated parents find themselves facing the need to adjust their custody schedules. The shift from the more relaxed, flexible summer arrangements to the structured routine of the school year can be challenging. Understanding how custody schedules can change during this transition and planning accordingly can help ensure a smooth adjustment for parents and children. What is the best way to address these changes? Below are a few tips to facilitate a smooth transition back into the school year. Communicate Early and Often: Open communication between parents is not just important; it’s essential. Discuss potential custody changes well before the school year begins. Regular check-ins can help address any concerns and ensure both parents are on the same page, providing a sense of reassurance and keeping everyone well-informed. Create a Detailed Plan: A detailed custody plan can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts. The plan should outline the daily schedule, transportation arrangements, responsibilities for extracurricular activities, and any other relevant details. Be Flexible and Cooperative: Flexibility and cooperation are not just helpful but key to successful co-parenting. Be willing to adjust as needed and consider each other's work schedules, commitments, and the child's needs. This approach empowers you to control the situation and work together for the best outcome for your child. Prioritize the Child's Best Interests: Always keep the child's best interests at the forefront of any decisions. Stability, consistency, and a supportive environment are crucial for the child's well-being and academic success. This responsibility and care for your child's needs should guide all your decisions. Seek Mediation or Legal Assistance if Necessary: If parents cannot agree on custody schedule changes, seeking mediation or legal assistance may be necessary. A mediator or family law attorney can help facilitate discussions and find a resolution for everyone involved. Adjusting custody schedules when children return to school can be a complex process. Still, parents can navigate this transition smoothly with careful planning, open communication, and a focus on the child's best interests. By working together and being flexible, parents can ensure their children have the stability and support they need to thrive academically and emotionally. If you need assistance modifying a custody schedule, consulting with an experienced family law attorney can provide valuable guidance and help protect your rights as a parent.
August 15, 2024
Family Law
My Spouse Had an Affair. What Rights Do I Have?
A question divorce attorneys are frequently asked is, “how will my spouse’s affair impact my divorce?” There are a few things to consider when dealing with adultery in divorce proceedings. Grounds for Divorce. As of October 2023, adultery is no longer grounds for divorce in Maryland. In fact, Maryland has abolished its fault-based grounds for divorce and now only recognizes three no-fault grounds: 6-month separation, irreconcilable differences, and mutual consent. Alimony. A judge will evaluate several factors when considering whether or not to award a party alimony, including the duration and amount. One of the factors is the circumstances leading to the divorce. This is where adultery comes into play. If your spouse had an affair, and financial support is necessary to maintain a reasonable standard of living or to become self-supporting, proving adultery could be an important factor in your alimony case. Property Division. Similar to alimony, property division is a factor-based inquiry where fault, including adultery, is considered. The court will analyze a multitude of factors when determining how to divide marital property, so it is important to address each factor that is relevant to your claim, including your spouse’s affair. Custody. Contrary to what most believe, adultery does not weigh heavily on a court’s decision about custody of minor children. It is often the case that someone can be a poor spouse but a good parent. However, suppose the adulterer is making poor judgment decisions about the children due to their extramarital affair (for example, taking the children to bars or leaving them unattended to spend time with a paramour). In that case, a court may weigh this behavior when determining parental fitness. It is hard enough to face the reality of dissolving a marriage, but finding out your spouse is having an affair will make an already difficult situation almost impossible. The emotional aspect of adultery is one of the biggest hurdles to a successful, amicable divorce. That is why it is important to have an experienced, skilled attorney who can objectively evaluate each fact related to your case to help you achieve a favorable outcome.
July 29, 2024
Family Law
Navigating LGBTQ+ Divorce: Unique Legal Considerations
With the 2015 decision in Obergefell v. Hodges, same-sex marriage has been recognized nationwide for nearly ten years. But what about same-sex couples who partnered through civil unions or other means 10, 20, or even 30 years prior to Obergefell? This is an important consideration when navigating LGBTQ+ divorce. Some couples married “on paper” for only nine years may be entitled to benefits from the relationship spanning beyond those years. In some jurisdictions, an argument can be made to divide what would otherwise be considered non-marital property in favor of the non-owning spouse if they were a contributor to the asset prior to marriage. For example, say a same-sex couple had been living together since 1995 and promptly got married in the District of Columbia once same-sex marriage was legalized in 2010. From 1995 until 2010, the house they lived in was the separate property of one spouse, but for 15 years, the other spouse put his own money into renovations, decorated, furnished, and helped make the house into a home. In this scenario, it would be equitable for the court to treat the house as a marital asset, given the circumstances of the parties’ relationship and the contributions made by the non-owner spouse. In other words, it would be unfair to erase 15 years of dedication to a home and family solely because the couple was not legally allowed to marry until 2010. When divorcing as a same-sex couple, it is important to have an attorney who recognizes the unique issues LGBTQ+ couples face in the legal realm. Though we are making great strides for our community, the laws protecting us are still behind. Having an experienced LGBTQ attorney to identify and address these unique concerns is paramount to achieving a fair and equitable outcome.
June 21, 2024
Family Law
Why should I get a Second Parent Adoption?
While many states have followed suit in adding protections for same-sex marriages and families after the Supreme Court decision in Obergefell v. Hodges, there are still many uncertainties when it comes to family formation in the LGBTQ+ community. For example, in a recent case out of Oklahoma, a judge ruled that a married, non-biological mother has no parental rights to the child she and her wife created and were raising together, but the couple’s sperm donor does. In this case, the judge relied on Oklahoma’s parentage laws under the Uniform Parentage Act, which predate same-sex marriage laws, meaning there was no presumption of parentage for the non-biological mom by virtue of the couple’s married status. A Second Parent Adoption provides an added layer of protection for all families where there is an intended parent without a biological tie. In many states, we are backed by the marital presumption, but, as demonstrated in Oklahoma just this year, a presumption can be easily rebutted if given any weight at all. This is why many same-sex families pursue a Second Parent Adoption, which is a court judgment that is recognized and protected in all jurisdictions. Having a skilled attorney who is versed in the Second Parent Adoption process will ensure that your family is protected regardless of the political climate of yesterday, today, or tomorrow.
March 13, 2023
