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Bettina Hindin

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Bettina D. Hindin is an accomplished and experienced matrimonial litigator, recognized for her skill and expertise in the investigation and analysis of the complex financial issues that arise in matrimonial, domestic relations, Surrogacy and Assisted Reproductive Technology (ART) and LGBTQIA matters. She is an acknowledged expert in the field and has appeared often as a commentator on these issues for MSNBC and CNN.

Bettina’s experience includes handling diverse transactional matters in all areas of domestic relations, LGBTQIA law and family law, including divorce, separation, annulment, maintenance, child support, support modification, custody, visitation, relocation, paternity, surrogacy, equitable distribution and asset valuation. Outside of the courtroom, Bettina's extensive experience also includes the negotiation of pre-nuptial and post-nuptial agreements, settlement agreements and non-marital agreements. Bettina was the first attorney in Nassau County, New York to file parentage/surrogacy papers.

She has successfully tried a myriad of matrimonial, child custody, surrogacy and support cases before the Family Courts and the Supreme Courts of the State of New York and argued appeals in the appellate courts of the state. Bettina provides clients with all of the requisite elements of matrimonial counseling on the most sophisticated level. A forceful litigator, she is particularly attuned to the interplay of litigation and settlement techniques required to produce optimal results.

Bettina has received the highest, AV Preeminent Rating by Martindale-Hubbell in professionalism and ethics, in both peer rating and judiciary rating categories for over 15 years; she has been recognized as a Super Lawyer,® since 2009, a distinction awarded to the top five percent of the lawyers in the state; has consistently received an Avvo “10” Rating, has been named to the Bar Register of Preeminent Women Lawyers, has been recognized as one of New York’s Women Leaders in the Law and has been selected as one of the Tri-state's Top Family Law Practitioners, and Top Attorneys in Metro New York.

    Education

    • St. John’s University (J.D.)
    • Hofstra University (B.A.)
    • University of London
      • Modern British Theatre in Performance, and Elizabethan and Jacobean Theatre in Performance

    State Bar Admissions

    • New York

    Court Admissions

    • United States District Court for the Southern District of New York
    • United States District Court for the Eastern District of New York
    • Supreme Court of the United States

    Professional Affiliations

    • OK RISE, LGBTQIA Subcommittee Chair, 2020-Present
    • Hofstra University Women in Leadership Initiative, Member, 2013-Presen
    • LeGal, Family and Matrimonial Law Committee, Member, 2013-Present
    • NYSBA, Committee on LGBT People and the Law, Member, 2013-Present
    • S. Department Attorney Network, Registered Counsel, The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of Child Abduction, 2010-Present
    • Appellate Division, First Department, Certified Law Guardian, 2002-Present
    • Family Law Section, Executive Committee Member, 2004-2018
    • Committee on Family Courts and Family, Member, 2003-2007
    • Association of the Bar of the City of New York, Member, 1987-2007
    • Committee on State Legislation, Member, 1995-1997
    • Committee on Matrimonial Law, Member, 1992-1995
    • Committee on Municipal Affairs, Secretary, Member, 1989-1992
    • Committee on Matrimonial Law, Secretary, Member, 1987-1988
    • New York State Bar Association, Member, 1986-Present
    • Lambda Legal Defense Fund, Cooperating Attorney Network, Member, 2009-Present
    • New York State Academy of Trial Lawyers, Member, 2026-Present

    Recognitions

    • Selected to New York Metro Super Lawyers® for Family Law (2009, 2014 - 2026)
    • Women’s Edition Super Lawyers New York Metro (2022 - 2024)
    • Top Rated Woman Leader in Law, Martindale Hubbell (2021)
    • Top Women Attorneys & Rising Star in the New York Metro Area, The American Registry (2021)
    • Women at the Forefront of New York Law and Practice, New York Women Leaders in The Law, New York Magazine (2008 - 2020)
    • Judicial and Lawyer Editions, Highest Possible Rating in Both Legal Ability and Ethical Standards, AV Preeminent Rating, Martindale Hubbell (2009-2020
    • Top Women, New York Super Lawyer (2014 - 2020)
    • Bar Register of Preeminent Women Lawyers, Martindale Hubbell (2013 - 2020)
    • Hofstra University Alumni Achievement Award (2017)
    • 30th Year Anniversary, Highest Possible Rating in Both Legal Ability and Ethical Standards, AV Preeminent Rating, Martindale Hubbell (2020)

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